
The Art of Oral Ecstasy: Going Down on Dudes
Feeling your lover above you, the anticipation of pleasure builds as their hips press against your head. What lies ahead is the ultimate in passionate pleasure. The arousal that comes with the intense attention given to your most intimate parts. It feels as if your body has been brought to a heightened level of satisfaction, as gravity and trust lead you into the realm of oral ecstasy. Going down on dudes is an exquisite sexual art that will have you screaming with joy beneath the expert touch of your partner. This is an unforgettable experience that everyone should experience at least once in their lifetime. Let me be your guide as you explore the pleasure and power of oral sex.
Table of Contents
- 1. Preparing the Cock for Pleasure – Everything You Need to Know
- 2. Maximizing Sensation: Stimulating the Mind and Body
- 3. Exploring Each Other: Tips for Getting Creative and Taking it to the Next Level
- 4. Surfacing and Satisfaction: Wrapping it up for Mutual Satisfaction
- Final Thoughts
1. Preparing the Cock for Pleasure – Everything You Need to Know
Wetting Him Up
To truly experience the ultimate pleasure both partners must take the necessary steps to prepare before the sensations start. For your partner, you’ll want to take your time to get him nice and wet before the feast begins.
Start by using your mouth, kiss and lick your way around his lower abdomen paying close attention to the areas of his body that will make him moan the most–the areas of the body that may need to be explored and attentively serviced.
Once you’ve teased and pleased these areas move your way up to his hard and erect penis.
Fit for Eating
Start with slow and gentle licks, starting from the base of the shaft all the way up to the tip of the head. As your partner’s moans grow louder, your licks get stronger, faster and your mouth gets wider. Be sure to take your time and not rush the process because that’s a sure way to leave him unsatisfied.
Gently and carefully move your head back and forth, up and down, while moving your mouth around and around the head. To increase the pleasure and intensity, introduce your favorite flavored lube into the mix. Swirl it around his glans with your tongue as you move your head up and down.
Go for as long as your partner allows and position yourself in a way that is comfortable. You’ll want to have a good grip and good balance so you can act like a pro and give your partner the experience of his life!
2. Maximizing Sensation: Stimulating the Mind and Body
Making A Move:
- Keep your hands busy. They say that the best way to make someone cum is to keep them engaged, and that goes for when you’re giving head too. A steady pulse or a glide along the shaft can stoke the fire.
- Play with the surroundings. Use light touches on the nipples or inner thighs, and spend time nibbling, licking, and kissing in circles around the base of his cock. Make sure to tease both inside as well as outside, but don’t neglect the most important area – the head.
- Change speeds and techniques. Take a break from head-on stroke-work to twirl your tongue around the tip, or alternate between light kisses and sucking. Use changes in pressure to your advantage, to heighten pleasure and maximize sensation.
Taking It Up A Notch:
- Integrate toys and tools. Since our mouths aren’t equipped with clitorises, intercourse-simulating devices such as vibrators and cockrings can help bridge the gap (though there’s no substitute for tonguework!)
- Play with temperature. Chopsticks around the base of the shaft, ice cubes along the length, even a combination of heated and scented massage oils can all take your guy to the edge.
- Keep ’em guessing. Use one hand to roll the balls, slip the other up and down the length, and find out just how wild and unexpected you can make the experience for your partner.
3. Exploring Each Other: Tips for Getting Creative and Taking it to the Next Level
Love thy Neighbor: Going down on a dude can be intimidating for the uninitiated. These tips will show you just how pleasurable oral can be for both parties. For starters, start slow and for the sake of safety, make sure your guy is totally clean down there. Once you get the all clear, take your time to explore every inch of his anatomy. Lick, suck and nibble your way down his shaft and around his testicles, then move onto his perineum and buttocks. Pay attention to what he responds well to and let your intuition guide you.
Level Up: Moving onto the penis itself? Start by teasing with gentle kisses and gentle strokes on the tip. Then, come in close and start to lick or flick your tongue up and down shaft, and around the head. Pay attention to his responses, and concentrate on building up speed and intensity. Use your hands to stroke the rest of body, increase arousal and build up to “the big O”. Feeling adventurous? Change up your position while performing oral. Switch between using your hands and tongue, talk dirty if he’s into it and don’t forget lubricant! Just remember to stay present in the moment and savor every single second.
4. Surfacing and Satisfaction: Wrapping it up for Mutual Satisfaction
Locking eyes with the smoldering man before you, your anticipation for oral ecstasy heightens as his lips curl into a primal grin. On your knees, you passionately inch closer towards him. Every move is fueled by the raging desire you feel, and nothing else matters.
The moment you’re ready, he guides his proud manhood towards your mouth. Your tongue eagerly wraps around the length, tickling and tasting every inch with the intensity your longing desires. In the heat of the moment, you bring in playful yet powerful techniques with your lips and hands that will send him soaring into bliss. Your head still between his thighs, the anticipation of his impending climax is palpable and you know that, with one more powerful stroke of your tongue, you can bring him to a crescendo of pleasure and satisfaction. You take pleasure in the knowledge that you’re taking him to the edge of pure unadulterated pleasure and savor the precious moments you have to create a moment of ecstasy for both of you.
Final Thoughts
As you summon the courage to take a daring plunge into the depths of oral pleasure and allow your tongue to meander along your partner’s body, you’ll discover a new world of thrilling sensations that will leave your heart racing and your mind blown. Let the adventure begin and may the ecstasy of each daring journey always be yours to discover.